How often should I make love to my pregnant wife who is 21 weeks pregnant?

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zealsports asked:


Before she got pregnant, we made love 3 to 4 times a week and now that she is about 21 weeks pregnant, am kind of scared to make love to her. What should I do, pls I need answers.

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  1. 26 Responses to “How often should I make love to my pregnant wife who is 21 weeks pregnant?”

  2. as long as she is comfortable with it

    By Tony R on Apr 15, 2009

  3. It’s ok for pregnant women to have sex, jus make sure you do it gently.

    By Rollercoaster on Apr 15, 2009

  4. Once you feel something grab your p e n i s when you two are DOING it then its time to stop.

    By kirstyledoyen on Apr 16, 2009

  5. you can do it right up to delivery, jusy don’t blow air up it with your mouth and don’t do the butt thing.

    By L.J. on Apr 18, 2009

  6. As long as the doctor hasn’t told you not to, it’s safe to make love to your wife while she’s pregnant. As to how many times per week, that’s up to the two of you.

    By talisman on Apr 21, 2009

  7. As long as their no complications w/ pregnancy & she is comfortable do it 10 x a day if the 2 of you want. The baby is not being hurt & can not feel anything, if the belly is a turn off try some diffrent positions

    By notAminiVANmama on Apr 22, 2009

  8. If she is pregnant, I will recommend that you have no sex…it’s so discusting and she can even loss the baby ( i think)…it’s just nasty…
    Please, dont make her pass through it…

    By Confused on Apr 25, 2009

  9. As often as she would like! It is perfectly safe, unless she has complications and her OB tells her otherwise.

    By newmommy on Apr 28, 2009

  10. As often as she wants, all the way until she delivers!!!! Don’t be worried, you can’t hurt the baby. Inf fact, many women are more horney when they are pregnant. And take advantage of it while you can, once baby comes say goodbye to a sex life for a long while.

    By Martina on May 1, 2009

  11. If she has a fine and normal pregnancy(no complications) you can make love to her as much as SHE wants.

    It may be a little uncomfortable for her since the vagina swells a little during the pregnancy. Also no more missionary, since it will be uncomfortable (big belly in the way) and she shouldn’t be laying on her back.

    By momofoneandhalf on May 3, 2009

  12. As long as there are no medical problems and the doctor has said there is nothing wrong or why you should avoid sex, you can do as much as you both want. make sure your wife is comfortable.

    PLEASE REMEMBER YOUR WIFE NEEDS TO FEEL BEAUTIFUL AND LOVED DURING PREGNANCY GIVE HER ALL THE COMPLIMENTS IN THE WORLD AND SHOW HER HOW MUCH YOU CARE, YOU ARE BOTH GOING THROUGH SOMETHING WONDERFUL TOGETHER. GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!

    By jazzy on May 5, 2009

  13. As many times as it takes to make her feel loved and beautiful while she is pregnant. But makes sure she is in the mood.

    By searious on May 6, 2009

  14. as long as she’s having a healthy pregnancy and feels up to being intimate, it’s a good thing. Pregnancy is rough in so many ways, on both people involved. Make sure you let her know she’s beautiful, maybe an occasional footrub/backrub, trust me, they go a long way towards helping relax and maybe get her in the mood. if she feels sexy, she’ll be more receptive. the feel good hormones released when having sex are good for her and the baby. when she’s relaxed the baby can tell. you’re not going to poke the baby or dislodge it, so as long as she’s up to it, have at it, just be gentile and follow her lead. i have a 5 month old, so treasure your alone time while you can..lol make sure she gets lots of rest, go to the movies, out to eat, ect. it’ll be hard to do all that for the first few months after your little one is with you. here’s a site that may help answer some of your questions :)

    By Missy W on May 6, 2009

  15. as many times as she needs it untill she is satisfied. Sexual desire can rise in pregnancy, ask her to let you know when she’s in the mood and the belly should be a turn on, it is the absolute core of what your love created…evolved into–look at what she is able to give to both your lives.Also–we would have super rough sex to TRY and get me to go into labor– i didn’t work so in my experieence you can get super rough and it is still ok.

    By JODY b on May 8, 2009

  16. If she is that many weeks old having sex will make the baby come out sooner it doesn’t do anything to the baby.Doctors will tell u to do other stuff and if you have already did that then you can have sex.You could do it every night.It wouldn’t hurt anything.

    By Yikesgirl116 on May 10, 2009

  17. As often as you like as long as it’s okay with her and there isn’t any pain.

    By sonkysst on May 11, 2009

  18. i dont think there something to be scared of if the oby still permits the both of you… makin love has also advantage in pregnancy… make love till you can :)

    By SweetandCuddlyRai on May 12, 2009

  19. there is no need to be scared the baby is safe and soundin the uterus full of liquid to protect it and it can ‘t be reached vaginally either I personally had to have sex on all fours towards the end of all 3 pregnancies due to a comfort thing But your wife will let you know

    By natasha on May 15, 2009

  20. For the answer of your question you better ask her Doc. when you will be there to the next visit. Her Doc. can suggest the best after her examination of baby’s growth and position in the Womb. Anyway I have studied that you can make love to woman even she is in her lost weeks but what you have to care about is the baby position and the position you get into during sex.

    By buttar506 on May 15, 2009

  21. Keep up what you have done before. Often pregnant women are more sexual while pregnant . Enjoy it

    By clcalifornia on May 16, 2009

  22. Don’t ask us. Ask your wife. It should be as often as you are both willing.

    By Wahoo on May 17, 2009

  23. you can have sex as long as she is ok with it but if she says not tonight then don’t she will be fine if the doctor does not have her taking it easy then no problem you can do the deed all the way until the night or day she starts labor hope this helps

    By krazy4_coke2 on May 17, 2009

  24. dont be stupid, dont do it hard but you can make love at a normal pace until she says she feels uncomfortable, the doctors usually say nothing in the last 6 weeks , just for safetys sake.

    By starrwoode on May 20, 2009

  25. If the doctor says it’s ok for sex, just be nice and gentle and ready to try new positions.

    By manywarhoops on May 23, 2009

  26. Dont worry the baby is totally sealed off. There is no way you can hurt the baby so chill out and enjoy your wife.

    By Bubbles on May 24, 2009

  27. once a month

    :> peace
    .

    By Pit on May 27, 2009

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